Monday, December 13, 2010

Cupboard Stocked with Faith

The third principle in getting through adversity is to use the power of faith to move forward toward your idea vision.

“Your mind is a cupboard,” the saying goes, “and you stock the shelves.”

Sometimes we don’t even know we are stocking our shelves; we just find things there.  What we see, hear, or participate in adds ‘food’ to our mental shelves.  Is the food on our shelves nourishing?

“The Assent of the Mind”

One powerful nourisher is faith.  What is faith?  Webster’s 1828 dictionary defines it as “the assent of the mind to the truth of what is declared by another, resting on his authority and veracity, without other evidence…”

This definition bears closer study.  So I invite you to study it.

You could focus on what the mind is assenting to—and define ‘What is truth?’ (But Pontius Pilate already chose this circular road one crucial Friday…)

Or you could focus on the last phrase and examine the shakiness of ‘without other evidence…’ (However, this phase is poorly worded as a plethora of general evidence abounds, giving you reference points to draw from.  For example the sun has risen for the last several centuries; it’s likely it will also tomorrow).

Or you could focus on who the mind is assenting to believe ‘resting on his authority and veracity…’ (Resting—such a peaceful word…reminds me of stillness, quietness, mildness…do these descriptors remind you of anyone?)

And what about the recognition of the heart and Spirit? Truth is not purely intellectual; for the intellect feeds on evidence-based knowledge, which is constantly being modified as our finite understanding gains new insights from new evidence.  Thus science books of 1900 are outdated while truth remains independent.

Faith as Power

Faith is motivating power—it instills positive belief in ourselves, others, God and circumstances.  

But the concept of faith seems rather ethereal and intangible…but then, to me… so is electricity.  And like electricity it is a great power source.  The trick is to discover, secure and use it.

Faith is a gift of God and works according to natural laws--we cannot manufacture it—though we can nourish, maintain and enlarge its influence and power in our lives.

“The problem of faith as of every gift of the Lord is twofold,” John A. Widtsoe says, “to secure it, and to use it. We speak easily of faith, but altogether too often fail to use it. We recall that it is knowledge, high knowledge, but forget that it is also power, mighty power, and therefore fail to use the greatest force placed within our reach in every issue of life.”

Alas, “Faith,” as Henry B. Eying reminds us, “has a short shelf-life…”

Faith is like Bread

Just like a loaf of bread, faith has to be used and replenished on a regular basis.  If neglected it will molder away.  When we go to our mental cupboard in time of need to get some of its power we will draw back in disgust at the hardened lump of…something.  Maybe once it was useful, powerful--a relevant, even needful part of our lives—but now?   

Mind cupboards, like physical cupboards, get cluttered with ‘stuff’ and need a spring cleaning once in a while. Faith cannot be stored like an emergency generator (in a dark corner of the basement to be used when a power line goes down).

Faith is the power line.  

So how do we connect to it? 

Friday, December 10, 2010

Remember the Overarching Vision

The second principle in getting through adversity is to remember the overarching vision of life and honour the small missions given you.

“Without vision," the proverb says, "the people perish."

When adversity strikes a visionless life, then—like our hero’s travelling companion—we are apt to head to safety and warmth rather then walk through our trial.  

Our hero in the swamp had a vision towards which he was working; it propelled him through adversity.  “We should not permit,” he said years later, “…[anything]…to draw us aside from pursuing the great object which God has sent us to perform.”

What was our hero’s ‘great object’ and is it ours as well?

Our Hero’s Vision

A brief foray into literature related to and written by our hero unearthed an intriguing pattern of vision—“Seek first the kingdom of God [or ‘to build the kingdom of God’, as Joseph Smith translated it] and all these things shall be added unto you.”

Intriguing to me because what appears to be a general commandment is transformed into a overarching vision and life mission.

He had been given a stewardship, a sacred responsibility and trust, to build the kingdom of God.  To him this encompassed the literal visions of the Old Testament prophets.  This was an epic work.   

“Our aim is high,” he later said, “our destiny is high, and we should never disappoint our Father, nor the heavenly hosts who are watching over us. We should not disappoint the millions in the spirit world who, too, are watching over us with an interest and anxiety that have hardly entered into our hearts to conceive of.

“These are great and mighty things which God requires of us.”

Sitting in the alligator swamp this majestic vision kept the young man turned toward Memphis.  There were people in Memphis who needed the vision he had been granted.

Small Missions in an overarching Vision

"Your work," the Lord told the early Saints, "is to keep my commandments."  That was the overarching vision that our hero was committed to.  His goal was heaven.  But between where he was and where he fully intended to be there was a world full of irritations, mishaps, lack, poverty—and other adverse conditions.

And so the overarching vision is spanned by small missions.  Missions to not just get through the adversity--but to be refined by the struggle.  To stretch and find, contrary to our immediate belief, that we don't break in the stretching. For example…

Rebekah…called to leave her home and family to marry an unknown cousin—her mission: trust God’s sending.

Job…lost his comfy retirement, his family and his health—his mission: retain integrity.

Esther…her fairytale existence threatened by duty to her people—her mission:
speak with courage.

Paul…shipwrecked and floating in the sea for three days—his mission: hang on.

Peter… distracted from walking on water by fear—his mission: reach for the Master and cry for help.

Nephi …finds his plans to retrieve the Lord’s word failed miserably—his mission: follow the Lord’s plan instead.

Without these individual's ‘small missions’ their life work would never have been accomplished. 

The Joys of Mission

[The joys of mission.] These are what I call right-track feelings,” Truman Madsen says. “The sense that no matter where we are or what we are doing, we are on the Lord's errand--that we are serving Him even in trifles. The conviction is that where you are is the best place for you to be as long as you need to be there. This applies even to sickbeds and dentists' chairs…

In the Church, our purr word is active, and it is of course crucial. But even if we are partially disabled--and we are, most of us, in various ways--even then, if the heart is continually filled with righteous desires, they themselves are transforming. The activity Christ most cares about is within us amidst the bustle. In short, wherever we are can be a pleasant place if Christ approves us there and attends us there.”

Even an alligator swamp.

So...what is the overarching vision of your life?  What 'small missions' have you been entrusted with?

Further Reading (or Listening)

What is your Mission?” by John Groberg
What is your calling in life?” Jeffrey Thompson 

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Growing Heartwood (part 2)

The first principle in getting through adversity is drawing on the internalized strength gained from past influences, experiences and experiments.

From influences are born experiments and experiences.  We take an idea from a parent, friend or book and experiment upon it. 
Thus having heard seeds grow if planted and watered you attempt the experiment.  The seed goes in the ground and is watered.  Days pass and soon you have the experience of seeing a little green seedling rise above the earth and grow steadily upward. 
These experiments and experiences grow heartwood.  When adversity strikes this heartwood is there to help you stand tall in the icy storm.
“You cannot help but learn more,” John Updike tells us, “as you take the world into your hands.  Take it up reverently, for it is an old piece of clay, with millions of thumbprints on it.”
We learn from all experiences, even the ones that don’t turn out as we would wish.
 “A man who carries a cat by the tail,” Mark Twain adds, “learns something he can learn in no other way.”
 “...and above all,” the Lord promises, speaking to the jailed Joseph Smith, “ if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good.”
Growing Heartwood
What if past influences have been negative? Past experiences harsh and corrosive?  Past experiments humongous failures? What of heartwood then? 
"Rather than dwelling on the past," Pres. Thomas S. Monson tells us, "we should make the most of today, of the here and now, doing all we can to provide pleasant memories for the future."
In other words—start growing heartwood now.
·        Learn from your ancestors—they weren’t all bad.  Learn from your parents—invert the negative example they left you and you find a positive. 
·        Learn for a pet (if you don’t have a pet learn from friend’s pets). 
·        Get a library card.  Get a librarian’s advice on children’s classics...why children’s classics rather than adults?  Books written for children retain a sense of wonder, imagination, liveliness and uplifting humour that adult classics have lost.
·        Try a new experience or a new experiment.  Start small.  It could be as simple as changing your daily routine, listening to an audio book as you drive to work or taking a walk in the beautiful outdoors.
Soon you will have a core of inner strength, or memories, to draw upon in adverse times.
Heartwood and our Hero in the Swamp
Our hero was alone after his companion ditched him for home.  Alone, incapacitated by a sore knee, surrounded by muddy water and potential alligators.  Looking back at his heartwood—memories stored in his heart and mind—our hero remembered the challenges he had already met on this journey to Memphis.  He had faced down bears and wolves, dug a canoe from a fallen tree, and relied on the kindness of strangers and enemies alike. 
He remembered what had kept him here in the alligator swamp instead of giving up and going home like his companion.  It was the vision, the sense of mission that lay like a fire in his heart, which kept him heading to Memphis.
Next Up: Finding you Life’s Work, Nourishing the Vision

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Growing Heartwood (part 1)


Aldermere Trail, Telkwa, BC

The first principle in getting through adversity is drawing on the internalized strength gained from past influences, experiences and experiments.
I love walking in the woods.   My path lies over rich dirt and pine needles, fallen leaves and tree roots.  Vibrant green ferns, wildflowers, mosses and prickle bushes line the dirt path.  And everywhere are the alder, pine and spruce—firmly rooted in the woodland soil they stand tall and straight and reach for the sunlight above them. 
It is peaceful among the trees in the wood.  It is stilling to listen to the silent but rich growth going on all around me.  Sometimes the stillness is complemented by birdsong or the industrious tap-tap of a woodpecker.  Always the majestic trees stand where they are planted...
I am reminded of lines from William Cullen Bryant’s “A Forest Hymn”:
“Be it ours to meditate
In these calm shades thy milder majesty,
And to the beautiful order of thy works
Learn to conform the order of our lives.”

You’ll notice if you walk through the woods that some trees are slim young things, supple and fresh-looking, while others are ancient grandfathers dripping with ‘old man’s beard’.  At the core of each of these trees—beneath the bark, beneath the sapwood—lies the heartwood.
The heartwood was once alive but as time passed a new living layer formed leaving the dead layer behind.  Dead but not useless--for it gives the tree its breadth;  it might be called the spine of the tree keeping it straight and tall. 
We too—as “trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord”—have heartwood.  The influences we experienced in the past have made us what we are today.  This is core strength to draw upon when adversity strikes.
Here is a selection of influences that create heartwood:
Ancestors
Search out your heritage," Pres. Thomas S. Monson urged. “It is important to know, as far as possible, those who came before us. We discover something about ourselves when we learn about our ancestors.”
The stories of my ancestors have served as a source of inspiration and  motivation in my life—teaching me about the power of compassion, courage, integrity, faith, prayer, writing, work, love, kindness...
Parents and other Mentors
“Each day of our lives,” Charles R. Swindoll says, “we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.”

Usually banked in the child’s mind are lessons learned in the home—team-work, co-operation, kindness, discipline, moral principles and life-skills. All these form heartwood.

Books

I find I absorb the implicit worldview of the characters in books I read. As Charles Kinsley reminds us so vividly:

Except a living man there is nothing more wonderful than a book!  A message to us from…human souls we never saw…And yet these arouse us, terrify us, teach us, comfort us, open their hearts to us as brothers.”

Pets

“Until one has loved an animal,” Anatole France says, “a part of one's soul remains unawakened."

There is much we can learn from animals including friendship, unconditional love, cheerfulness, hard work and energetic play. 




Next up--Growing Heartwood (part 2)

Monday, December 6, 2010

Traversing the Alligator Swamp: Principles in Moving Through Adversity

Once upon a time two young men were travelling to Memphis.  (This was way before Elvis’ time—in the early 1830s).  They travelled on an old military road that quickly passed through swampland.  Soon the two young men were walking in muddy water up to their knees. 

During the first 10 miles they slogged through the swamp they caught glimpses of alligators.  This was unnerving.  At least one of the companions thought it was.

“I can’t take it anymore!” he said, as they stopped to rest on a fallen log.  “I’m tired and wet and hungry.  The last few months I’ve been more hungery and cold then in my whole life.  I've been threatened by bears and wolves...and now this.  I’m going home!”

And he did, leaving our hero by himself--Wilford Woodruff by name--in the middle of an alligator swamp.  A sharp pain in his knee prevented the young man from continuing his journey.

Wet, dirty, cold, tired, hungry, alone, physically incapacitated ,with the threat of alligators lurking in the muddy water—this, I think, could be considered adverse circumstances.

So what did the young man do?  What would you do in this situation?  I would have gone home I think—but our hero did not…

“I knelt down in the mud and prayed,” he later reported, “and the Lord healed me, and I went on my way rejoicing….walking forty miles in a day through mud and water knee-deep.” (from the digitized book Leaves from my Journal--signed by the author!)

When the road of life takes us through the swampland of adversity we have two options—give up or continue on.  Our hero continued on—how?

Principles to get through the Alligator Swamp
(with problems posed in parentheses)
  • Strength from Past Experiences (What if past experiences weren't strengthening?)
  • Sense of Vision and Purpose in the Journey (Lost mine--now what)
  • Seek Divine Aid with Faith (Got none--do I?)
  • Seek Divine Aid through Prayer (I think I've been forwarded to voice mail...)
  • Wallking Out (But I want to run!)
  • Rejoicing as you Endure (Is that as 'pollyanna' as it sounds?)
So those are the general principles. We’ll examine each principle (and problems posed) in depth with subsequent posts. And we’ll see if our young hero lived “happily ever after”.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Living Gratitude: the Sum of the Matter (Part 4)

“To live gratitude is to touch Heaven,” Johannes A. Gaertner asserts (as does Pres. Monson). 

The grateful heart is the grace-filled heart.  Cultivating gratitude, is much like priming an old pump—it takes work but eventually the waters come rushing out (a little rusty tasting at the start perhaps).

Gratitude awakens our senses to the health and happiness we already posses (even if both are not the desired ‘full measure').  Gratitude opens our hearts to the love God has for us, and the wonders that surround us in the ordinary. Gratitude serves to magnify and enrich our blessings, our spirits and our relationship with others.

“Hem your blessings with thankfulness,” the saying goes, "so they don't unravel.”

Heart-felt words of thanksgiving are characteristics of divinity.  So often during his mortal and post-mortal ministries the Lord gratefully acknowledged: “Father, I thank thee…” (Luke 10:21, John 11:41, 3 Nephi 19:20, 3 Nephi 19:28)

As a characteristic of deity, gratitude is to be mirrored in his children.  Is it easy to keep the commandment to be thankful?  Is it easy to take life with gratitude rather then for granted? 

No.  Absolutely not!

Heavenly Help and Promise

But our omniscient, loving Father in Heaven knows that and has provided for it.

“Ye cannot bear all things now,” he tenderly told the early Saints, “nevertheless, be of good cheer, for I will lead you along. The kingdom is yours and the blessings thereof are yours, and the riches of eternity are yours.” (D&C 78:18)

Then comes the promise for those who accept the Lord’s leading:

“And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more.” (D&C 78:19)

Creed is Worthless without Conduct

Of course knowing the blessings that can come by pactising gratitude is worthless and meaningless without acting on it.  Knowledge is always so.  Just like the two blades of a pair of scissors...knowing and doing, faith and works...go together. (see Mere Christianity)
"Between the knowing and the doing," Henry van Dyke reminds us, "there is a deep gulf. Into that abyss the happiness of many a man slips, and is lost. There is no peace, no real and lasting felicity for a human life until the gulf is closed, and the continent of conduct meets the continent of creed, edge to edge, lip to lip, firmly joined forever."

“Knowledge is only half of intelligence,” Nels L. Nelson reminds us in his magnificent Scientific Aspects of Mormonism. “To stop here is to be falsely educated.

“If, however, the truth perceived becomes a dynamic fact in a man's character...if, in short, it ceases to be something in a man, and becomes the man himself, changing the very color and texture of his soul, then knowledge has passed over into power — or character—or wisdom—or, to adopt the term used by Joseph Smith, has passed over into intelligence; and it is such a process alone that represents true education.”

One Way to Live Gratitude

So let’s say we decide gratitude is a blessing and strive to cultivated it...how does that look?  How do live it?

“One way of expressing gratitude,” Richard L. Evans tells us, “would be to use well what we have—material things, talents, time, opportunities, sympathy, compassion.”

And that is the sum of this facet of glory.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Gratitude: Power to re-awaken Wonder (Part 3)

We can only be said to be alive,” Thornton Wilder says, “in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.”


So often in life we take our treasures for granted.  Possibly because through constant contact the novelty wears off and they become ordinary.  I remember when my parents first got chickens how excited my brothers were to collect the eggs.  For the first week.

Our treasures so often fade into the woodwork and we don’t see them anymore.  And so we go looking for more…and more…and more…and wonder why they quickly disappear once we have them in our grasp.

How do we re-awaken to wonder?  How do we re-awaken to the treasures we already have? The answer is one you probably have heard many times.  It is a common answer because it commonly works when applied--but is, sadly, commonly not used.

Gratitude helps us remember that the ordinary, somewhat mundane things around us, are treasures.  Instead of following the "stale trick" of taking life for granted, G.K. Chesterton urged his readers a century ago, we should take life as granted…and the only response to a granted life is gratitude.

"By small means are great things brought to pass" is a truism that threads through the ages bringing miracles in its wake.  Young children, "small means" by themselves, are marvelous examples of treasuring and being enthralled by the ordinary.  For to them it is extraordinary—wonders are all around them…

 “A child of seven is excited,” G.K. Chesterton remarked, “by being told that Tommy opened a door and saw a dragon.  But a child of three is excited by being told that Tommy opened a door.” (Orthodoxy)

What other treasures are sources of wonder for little kids?

Boxes for one.  What a marvelous thing a box is!  You can (if it’s large enough) sit in a box, or put stuff in a box, or take stuff out of a box, or squish a box…amazing!

And then there are light switches.  Just by hitting a switch on the wall a darkened room can suddenly be illuminated and you can see everything in it.  Hit the switch again and the room is awash in darkness.  What power!

Through cultivating gratitude we are conscious of the treasure, the grace of ordinary things, people, ideas.  Just like hitting a light switch can illumine a darkened room, gratitude can illuminate the wonder of the ordinary—and we see it in its true light—extraordinary, a freely granted gift, our inheritance upon being born in the world.

What have you inherited? What treasures can you discover in the ordinary?  

Here are some treasures I’ve inherited:
  • Gospel in its fullness
  • Scriptures printed and in my own language
  • Ancestors with great faith, great work-ethic and great hearts
  • Song of birds in the early morning
  • Sweet perfume of rain-washed lilacs
  • Beauty of pines frosted with snow
  • Hot water
  • A variety of fresh fruit and vegetables
  • Electricity
  • Plumbing
...and, of course, boxes and light switches.